Motherhood and Control

Mamma's manipulative tenderness and her insistence on emotional compliance—'you must do as I wish, and say you want to'—shape her children's lives, especially Victor's, and reveal the subtle tyranny of maternal love.

Margaret's prayers focus on having a son, and her identity is tied to domestic and maternal roles.

Mamma's focus on Victor and her garden reflects her desire to control her world and shield herself from grief.

Mamma's insistence on eating bonny-clabber and her care for Victor's delicate appetite illustrate maternal control and concern.

Mamma's manipulative way of asking for willing compliance and her emotional reaction to leaving Victor at school illustrate her controlling yet affectionate motherhood.