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The Perennial Bachelor · Theme

Motherhood and Control

How The Perennial Bachelor develops Motherhood and Control.

Mamma's manipulative tenderness and her insistence on emotional compliance—'you must do as I wish, and say you want to'—shape her children's lives, especially Victor's, and reveal the subtle tyranny of maternal love.

Where it surfaces

  • II

    Margaret's prayers focus on having a son, and her identity is tied to domestic and maternal roles.

  • V

    Mamma's focus on Victor and her garden reflects her desire to control her world and shield herself from grief.

  • VI

    Mamma's insistence on eating bonny-clabber and her care for Victor's delicate appetite illustrate maternal control and concern.

  • VII

    Mamma's manipulative way of asking for willing compliance and her emotional reaction to leaving Victor at school illustrate her controlling yet affectionate motherhood.

  • X

    Mamma's thoughts about Victor's upbringing and her desire for a father's guidance reflect her role as a controlling yet caring mother.

  • XI

    Mamma's love for Victor leads her to sacrifice her own happiness, showing the controlling power of a mother's devotion.

  • XII

    Mamma tries to arrange a treat for May's guest, but May's rejection of her efforts shows the tension between maternal care and a daughter's independence.

  • XIII

    Mamma's constant fussing over Victor's safety and her attempts to manage the social interactions reflect her controlling nature as a mother.

  • XV

    Mamma's final request for Maggie to take care of Victor underscores her role as a mother and her concern for her children's future.

  • XXXI

    Maggie's concern for her children's future and her efforts to manage her household despite illness reflect her maternal role.