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The Coming of Bill · Theme

Love vs. Social Convention

How The Coming of Bill develops Love vs. Social Convention.

The central romance between Kirk (a struggling artist) and Ruth (a millionaire's daughter) defies class expectations and family opposition, highlighting the conflict between genuine love and societal pressures to marry within one's station.

Where it surfaces

  • Book I

    Kirk and Ruth's love is challenged by the social conventions of their different social classes.

  • III: The Mates Meet

    Ruth and Kirk feel an instant, primal attraction, but Ruth acknowledges the tiresome formalities of courtship that society demands before they can be together.

  • IV: Troubled Waters

    Kirk and Ruth's secret courtship defies social expectations, as Ruth's brother Bailey and others disapprove of their relationship, viewing it as improper and threatening to family honor.

  • VI: Breaking the News

    Ruth's secret marriage to Kirk defies her father's expectations and societal norms.

  • X: An Interlude of Peace

    Steve Dingle's love for Mamie is hindered by his self-consciousness about his rough appearance, reflecting internal conflict between feeling and societal expectations.

  • IV: The Widening Gap

    Ruth's return to her social sphere clashes with Kirk's desire for a hermetic life, highlighting the tension between personal love and societal expectations.

  • Dolls with Souls

    Sybil's raw, fanatical love for Bailey contrasts with Ruth's earlier complacent marriage, highlighting the tension between genuine emotion and social expectations.

  • Mrs. Porter's Waterloo

    Ruth's choice to reconcile with Kirk despite societal and familial pressure to divorce him.