Mr. Ramsay

The Window

Rational and pessimistic father who declares the weather will not be fine, creating tension with his wife and son.

The Window I

Declares the weather will not be fine, taking pleasure in disillusioning his son; walks the terrace with Charles Tansley.

II

Stands by the window and awkwardly tells James they cannot go to the Lighthouse, trying to soften his voice for Mrs. Ramsay's sake.

III

Declares the weather will not be fine, recites poetry while pacing the terrace.

IV

Mr. Ramsay is seen booming tragically and seeking sympathy, then later riding off dramatically, causing both alarm and ridicule.

VI

Struggles with his intellectual limits (stuck at Q), seeks sympathy, and oscillates between petulance and humility; ultimately asks to check with the Coastguards.

VII

Stops to demand sympathy from his wife, repeatedly declaring himself a failure until she reassures him.

VIII

Stops to watch his wife and son, then contemplates philosophy and the nature of civilization, feeling both happy and inadequate.

XI

Mr. Ramsay passes by Mrs. Ramsay, noting her stern beauty and feeling saddened by her remoteness. He wishes to protect her but feels he cannot, and he resolves not to interrupt her solitude.

XII

Strolls with his wife, expressing melancholy thoughts and seeking solitude; recalls his youthful walks and worries about Andrew; struggles to share his feelings with Mrs. Ramsay.

XIII

Stands with Mrs. Ramsay, laughs at a story about Hume, then strolls off to his study.

XVII

Shows unease about his work's legacy, irritably comments on Shakespeare, and seeks praise from others.

XIX

Reads Scott, feels fortified by the story, and seeks silent companionship with his wife.

III

Stumbles along a passage, stretching out his arms after Mrs. Ramsay's sudden death.

VI

Mr. Ramsay is present at Prue's wedding, leaning on his arm as she is given away.

The Lighthouse

Leads the expedition to the lighthouse, seeking connection with his children and closure with the past.

I

Walks the terrace in a rage, demands sympathy from Lily, and insists on the trip to the Lighthouse with James and Cam.

II

Seeks sympathy from Lily, becomes pleased by her praise of his boots, and leads the expedition to the Lighthouse.

III

Lily watches Mr. Ramsay sail to the Lighthouse with Cam and James, feeling a mix of relief and disappointment.

IV

Sits in the middle of the boat, fidgeting and impatient for wind, then content as the sails fill. He seeks sympathy from Cam, recites poetry, and tries to engage her about the puppy, revealing his need for female attention and his difficulty understanding women's minds.

V

Sails to the Lighthouse with James and Cam. Lily feels weighed down by the sympathy she did not give him.

VII

He is sailing to the Lighthouse; Lily reflects on his earlier request for sympathy and her refusal.

VIII

Mr. Ramsay sits reading a small book, his gestures and silence creating an atmosphere of dread for James. He remains absorbed, occasionally raising his hand as if conducting a secret symphony.

X

Mr. Ramsay is observed by Cam as he reads, appearing absorbed and wise, though James views him as a tyrant.

XI

Mr. Ramsay sails to the Lighthouse; Lily observes his boat and recalls his temper and his marriage proposal to Mrs. Ramsay.

XII

Reads fiercely, appears old and lonely, seeks escape in reading, praises James's steering, and leads the landing at the Lighthouse.