Fear and Conformity

Where it surfaces

• I

  Valancy is paralyzed by fear of her mother's disapproval and the family's judgment, forcing her to hide her true feelings and desires behind a mask of obedience.

• II

  Valancy's entire morning is dominated by fear—fear of her mother, her aunts and uncles, and the clan's opinions. She feels trapped by the need to conform to family expectations, from her hairstyle to the timing of meals.

• V

  Valancy's dread of Dr. Stalling and her fear of defying family expectations illustrate the theme of fear and conformity.

• VI

  Valancy's fear of judgment and her family's rigid expectations dominate her daily life, as seen in Lover's Lane and the evening darning.

• VIII

  Valancy reflects on her lifelong fears of family disapproval and poverty, which she now rejects in the face of death.

• XIII

  The family's panic and attempts to control Valancy reflect their fear of nonconformity and social embarrassment.

• XV

  The family's horror and focus on reputation and appearances highlight the theme of fear and conformity, as they prioritize social standing over Valancy's autonomy and Cissy's humanity.

• XIX

  Valancy struggles with fear of Dr. Stalling's authority but overcomes it, symbolizing her break from conformity.

• The Dance at Chidley Corners

  Valancy's fear of social judgment prevents her from wearing the green dress, and she feels 'undressed' without a collar.

• XXII

  Mrs. Stirling and Cousin Stickles represent the oppressive fear of scandal and the rigid conformity that Valancy is rebelling against.

• XXXVIII

  Valancy is overwhelmed by fear of Barney's judgment, her family's scorn, and the prospect of returning to her old, constrained life, highlighting the theme of fear and societal conformity.