# XVI: Mr. Bettison Proposes explained — The Black Moth

> Chapter companion for The Black Moth by Georgette Heyer.

## What happens

Mr. Bettison, oblivious to Diana's coldness, proposes marriage and is firmly refused. He insults Jack Carr, leading Diana to have him shown out. After crying, she confides in her aunt about her love for Jack. Lady O'Hara then pays a visit, charming the Beauleighs.

## Themes in this chapter

### Social Class and Appearance

Mr. Bettison's self-assured proposal and his insult toward Jack Carr as a 'shady fellow' reflect class prejudices and the importance of social standing.

### Love and Marriage

Diana's refusal of Bettison and her declaration of love for Jack Carr highlight the tension between societal expectations and personal affection.

### Deception and Duality

Diana's initial listlessness and snubbing of Bettison conceal her true feelings for Jack, while Bettison misreads her demeanor as shyness.

## Character check-ins

### Diana Beauleigh

Refuses Mr. Bettison's proposal, defends Jack Carr, and confides her love for Jack to her aunt.

### Mr. Bettison

Proposes to Diana, is refused, insults Jack Carr, and is shown out by Thomas.

### Elizabeth Beauleigh

Counsels Diana about love and Jack, then welcomes Lady O'Hara.

### Mr. Beauleigh

Hopes for Mr. Bettison as a son-in-law, later retreats to his library upon seeing Lady O'Hara.

### Lady O'Hara

Visits the Beauleighs, charms them with her conversation and manner.

### Jack Carstares

Mentioned as the highwayman Diana loves; Mr. Bettison insults him as 'that insufferable Carr'.

### Thomas

The servant who shows Mr. Bettison out and announces Lady O'Hara.

## Key lines

> Mr. Bettison could make nothing of Diana of late. Her demeanour, at first so charming and so cheerful, had become listless, and even chilling.

Mr. Bettison was puzzled by Diana's recent change in behavior; she had gone from charming and cheerful to indifferent and cold.

_Sets up Diana's emotional state and her rejection of Bettison's advances._

> I must beg that you will discontinue your all-too-frequent visits here. Please do not deem me unkind, but your persecution of me—I can call it nothing else—is wearying—and—you will forgive the word—tiresome.

Diana firmly asks Mr. Bettison to stop visiting so often, calling his attentions a persecution that is wearying and tiresome.

_Diana's direct refusal and dismissal of Bettison._

> You are infatuated by that overdressed popinjay—that insufferable Carr, who, from all I hear, is but a shady fellow

Mr. Bettison accuses Diana of being infatuated with Jack Carr, whom he calls an overdressed, insufferable, and shady character.

_Bettison's insult reveals his jealousy and the low opinion of Jack Carr._

> Oh, are all men such big stupids?

Diana exclaims in frustration, wondering if all men are foolish.

_Diana's exasperation with Jack's decision to leave her._

> I always said you’d take it badly. Love. And no man is worth one teardrop, sweet.

Miss Betty remarks that she always knew Diana would take love badly, and that no man is worth crying over.

_Aunt Betty's pragmatic view on love and heartbreak._

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