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Love and Loss

How Poetry develops Love and Loss.

Love is portrayed as both a transcendent, passionate force and a source of profound grief, with many poems depicting lovers separated by death, betrayal, or circumstance.

Where it surfaces

  • Stanzas to Miss Wylie

    The speaker's urgent invitation and promises of devotion reflect a theme of romantic longing and the fear of missing out on shared bliss.

  • Woman! When I Behold Thee Flippant, Vain

    The speaker's conflicted adoration and the fear of unrequited or imperfect love highlight the theme's presence.

  • To ⸻

    The speaker's unrequited or distant love and the longing to reach the beloved's heart.

  • Sonnet: As from the Darkening Gloom

    The departed soul enters a realm of 'everlasting love,' while the speaker questions why grief persists in the face of such joy.

  • On a Picture of Leander

    Leander's tragic death in pursuit of his beloved Hero highlights the theme of love leading to loss.

  • To a Young Lady Who Sent Me a Laurel Crown

    The speaker's devotion to the young lady is expressed through his willingness to kneel and kiss her hand.

  • To a Friend Who Sent Me Some Roses

    The roses from a friend bring a tender plea of peace and truth, suggesting themes of affection and the enduring bond of friendship.

  • To My Brother George

    The poem expresses deep affection for the brother George, suggesting that natural wonders lose their meaning without shared experience.

  • Sonnet: Keen, Fitful Gusts Are Whisp'ring

    The speaker reflects on Milton's love for the drowned Lycid and Petrarch's love for Laura, intertwining themes of affection and mourning.

  • Endymion

    Endymion's transition from dream to earthly love is marked by both joy and sorrow, as he renounces his visionary past.

  • Book II

    Endymion and the goddess experience the pain of separation and the intensity of their love.

  • III

    Glaucus's unrequited love for Scylla and his subsequent seduction by Circe highlight the pain and loss inherent in love.

  • IV

    Endymion's passionate confession and the Carian's loss of his lady highlight the pain and transience of love.

  • Lines

    The poem explores the intensity of love and the speaker's willing submission to its laws, hinting at both joy and potential madness.

  • Sharing Eve’s Apple

    The poem celebrates the passionate, physical aspect of love while acknowledging its impermanence ('it only will last our youth out').

  • Song: Hush, Hush! Tread Softly!

    The poem captures the intensity and secrecy of forbidden love, with the constant threat of discovery by the 'jealous old bald-pate.'

  • I

    The secret, cautious meeting of lovers under threat of discovery by a jealous figure.

  • II

    The speaker's devotion to Isabel is central, as her presence outshines the moon and all natural light.

  • III

    The lover's intense, secret kiss is shadowed by the fear of death if discovered, blending passion with the threat of loss.

  • Extracts from an Opera

    The verses explore the intensity of love, from adoration and prayer to fear of imperfection and separation.

  • O! Were I One of the Olympian Twelve

    The speaker's longing for a law that rewards the lover's toil with kisses and beauty underscores the theme of love's desire and the pain of separation.

  • Song: The Stranger Lighted from His Steed

    The secret, unheard kisses and the lady's willing retreat with the stranger suggest a clandestine love affair.

  • Asleep! O Sleep a Little While, White Pearl

    The speaker expresses sudden adoration and vows of devotion to a sleeping beloved.

  • To a Lady Seen for a Few Moments at Vauxhall

    The poem explores the enduring pain of a lost, momentary love that colors all subsequent experiences.

  • To John Hamilton Reynolds

    The longing for repeated 'parting and warm meeting' underscores the pain of separation and the desire to mitigate loss through temporal expansion.

  • The Devon Maid

    The speaker's affectionate pursuit of the Devon maid and the desire for a shared, intimate moment evoke themes of love and its transient joys.

  • Isabella, or the Pot of Basil

    The central theme of the poem, depicting the intense love between Isabella and Lorenzo and the devastating loss following his murder.

  • Isabella; or, The Pot of Basil I

    The chapter depicts the intense, inseparable bond between Isabel and Lorenzo, foreshadowing eventual loss.

  • II

    The deepening love between Lorenzo and Isabel is portrayed as tender and all-consuming, foreshadowing potential loss.

  • III

    The lover's sick longing and constant watchfulness reflect the theme of love intertwined with the pain of separation.

  • IV

    The lovers' prolonged delay and growing pallor reflect the tension between desire and inaction.

  • V

    Lorenzo's determination to confess his love is driven by Isabella's visible suffering from unspoken affection.

  • VI

    The chapter explores the overwhelming and contradictory nature of passion, where love brings both feverish ambition and meek vulnerability.

  • VII

    The chapter depicts the anguish of love intertwined with the foreboding of loss, as Isabel reads Lorenzo's suffering.

  • VIII

    Lorenzo's passionate confession and fear of doom reflect the theme of love intertwined with loss.

  • IX

    Love is portrayed as a guiding force that transforms the speaker's environment and emboldens him, leading to shared poetic bliss.

  • Parting and Reunion

    The lovers' parting and reunion highlight the themes of love and the fleeting nature of separation.

  • XI

    The secret meetings of the lovers are tinged with foreboding, as the speaker hints at future woe that idle ears will relish.

  • XII

    The chapter questions the unhappiness of lovers and the excessive pity given to them after death.

  • XIII

    The chapter contrasts the sweetness of love with the bitterness it can bring, using the tragic fates of Dido and Isabella as examples.

  • XXI

    The brothers' discovery of Lorenzo and Isabel's love sets the stage for impending loss, as their bitterness threatens to tear the lovers apart.

  • XXII

    The brothers' plot to kill Lorenzo directly threatens the love between Isabel and Lorenzo, foreshadowing tragic loss.

  • XXV

    The protagonist's intense passion and longing for his lady, culminating in her joyful appearance.

  • XXVI

    The chapter captures the tender anxiety of lovers parting, even briefly, and the joy of anticipated reunion.

  • XXVII

    Lorenzo's love for Isabel is contrasted with the brothers' murderous intent, highlighting the tragic loss of love.

  • XXVIII

    Lorenzo's love ends with his death in the forest.

  • XXIX

    The brothers' lie aims to sever Isabel's hope of reunion with Lorenzo, emphasizing the theme of love threatened by loss.

  • Isabel's Lament

    She mourns the absence of love and the loss of her beloved Lorenzo.

  • XXXI

    Isabel's love transforms into sorrow and tragic passion as she frets over her absent beloved.

  • XXXIII

    Isabel's love for Lorenzo turns to anxiety and foreshadows loss.

  • XXXV

    The ghostly visitation of Lorenzo underscores the enduring love and profound loss felt by Isabel.

  • XXXVII

    The basil plant's eyes are bright with love, protecting Isabel from the memory of Lorenzo's murder.

  • XXXVIII

    Lorenzo's plea from the grave underscores the enduring bond and sorrow of separation.

  • XL

    The speaker's love for a pale, seraphic figure is intertwined with a sense of loss and the grave.

  • XLIII

    Isabel's devotion to Lorenzo drives her to seek his remains in the forest.

  • XLVI

    Isabel's desperate digging at the grave reflects her profound love and the loss of Lorenzo.

  • XLVII

    The glove, a token of lost love, is cherished and mourned over, highlighting the theme of love and loss.

  • XLVIII

    Isabel's labor over the basil, which contains the remains of her lover, reflects the intertwining of love and loss.

  • L

    The chapter emphasizes love's immortality despite death, with Isabella mourning the loss.

  • LI

    Isabel's care for the basil plant symbolizes her enduring love and loss of Lorenzo.

  • LII

    Isabel's mourning is expressed through her careful and tearful tending of the basil plant.

  • LIII

    Her devotion to the basil plant symbolizes her enduring love for Lorenzo and the depth of her loss.

  • LIV

    Isabel's grief for Lorenzo is channeled into nurturing the basil plant, symbolizing her undying love and loss.

  • LVIII

    The basil plant serves as a tangible symbol of Isabel's lost love, Lorenzo, and her inability to move on from his death.

  • LIX

    Isabel's devotion to the basil plant reflects her enduring love and grief for Lorenzo.

  • LXI

    Isabel's death is caused by the loss of her basil plant, a symbol of her love.

  • LXII

    Isabel's desperate mourning for her basil plant reflects deep love and profound loss.

  • LXIII

    Isabel's death from grief over the loss of her basil plant symbolizes the destructive power of love and loss.

  • Acrostic

    The speaker expresses deep affection for his sister, valuing love and brotherhood above poetic fame.

  • On Hearing the Bag-Pipe and Seeing “The Stranger” Played at Inverary

    The speaker's inability to choose between the two dainties and his eventual parting from both reflects a theme of love and loss.

  • Translation from a Sonnet of Ronsard

    The speaker's love for Cassandra is immediate and consuming, but it brings only burning pains and a sad end.

  • Song

    The poem centers on the grief of losing a beloved dove, exploring the pain of separation and unanswered questions.

  • Modern Love

    The poem deconstructs romantic love as an illusion, contrasting historical passion with modern triviality.

  • The Eve of St. Agnes

    The central romance between Madeline and Porphyro is shadowed by the danger of discovery and the final escape into a storm, highlighting the fragility of love.

  • V

    The Lady's heart is wholly occupied with love, brooding all day on St. Agnes' care.

  • St. Agnes' Eve Rituals

    The ritual is centered on receiving adorings from loves and visions of delight, highlighting the theme of romantic longing.

  • VII

    Madeline's heart is elsewhere, longing for a love that may come through dreams.

  • IX

    Porphyro's intense longing for Madeline and his hope for a forbidden encounter highlight the theme of passionate love.

  • The Perilous Venture

    Love is portrayed as a feverish citadel under siege, with the lover's heart stormed by hostile forces.

  • XIII

    Porphyro's desperate search for Madeline underscores the theme of love's urgency and the potential for loss.

  • XIV

    The theme of love and loss is present through the risky venture of Porphyro to see Madeline on St. Agnes' Eve, highlighting the stakes and potential sorrow.

  • XV

    Porphyro's tears and emotional turmoil reflect the poignant blend of love and impending loss.

  • XVII

    Porphyro's desperate vow to protect Madeline underscores the theme of love's intensity and the fear of loss.

  • XIX

    Porphyro's risky plan to win Madeline as his bride underscores the theme of love's pursuit and potential loss.

  • Chapter XX

    The urgency and devotion in the plan to wed the lady highlight the theme of love overcoming obstacles.

  • Chapter XXI

    Porphyro's secret and risky approach to Madeline's chamber highlights the intensity and peril of their love.

  • XXII

    The tension of Porphyro's hidden vigil and Madeline's vulnerable return evokes the precariousness of love and the fear of loss.

  • XXIII

    Madeline's intense, silent emotional turmoil reflects the theme of love and the fear of loss or unfulfilled desire.

  • XXV

    Porphyro's intense reaction to Madeline's purity underscores the theme of idealized love and its potential for loss.

  • XXVIII

    Porphyro's silent, reverent observation of Madeline underscores the intensity of his love and the precariousness of their secret meeting.

  • XXIX

    Porphyro's anguished preparation and the fading noise of the feast evoke a sense of longing and impending separation.

  • The Eve of St. Agnes

    Porphyro's elaborate offering symbolizes his devotion and the risk of loss if his plan fails.

  • XXXI

    Porphyro's desperate plea for Madeline to awaken underscores the tension between love's fulfillment and the fear of loss.

  • XXXII

    Porphyro's inability to redeem his lady's eyes from the spell suggests a tension between love's desire and the loss of connection to reality.

  • XXXIII

    The knight's playing of a song about a merciless lady and the lady's disturbed reaction evoke themes of unrequited or tragic love.

  • XXXIV

    The painful change from dream to waking brings tears and sorrow, reflecting the tension between love's bliss and its loss.

  • XXXV

    Madeline's desperate plea to Porphyro underscores the theme of love threatened by loss and eternal separation.

  • XXXVI

    The intense union of Porphyro and Madeline is set against the cold, fleeting night, hinting at inevitable separation.

  • XXXVII

    Madeline's realization that her love may lead to loss and abandonment, as she fears Porphyro will leave her.

  • XXXVIII

    Porphyro's passionate declaration of love and devotion to Madeline, framed as a pilgrim's quest fulfilled.

  • A Dream, After Reading Dante’s Episode of “Paolo and Francesca”

    The poem centers on the sorrow of lovers in hell, with pale lips and a melancholy storm evoking lost love.

  • Ode to Fanny

    The speaker's passionate love for Fanny is intertwined with fears of loss, jealousy, and the pain of uncertain affection.

  • La Belle Dame Sans Merci

    The knight's brief, intense love for the faery lady ends in loss and desolation.

  • VI

    The intimate act of making adornments and the beloved's affectionate response evoke themes of love and its potential transience.

  • VII

    The lady's declaration of love, though sincere, foreshadows the speaker's eventual loss.

  • VIII

    The deep sighs and the intimate act of kissing suggest a poignant moment of love tinged with melancholy.

  • La Belle Dame sans Merci

    The speaker's enchantment by La Belle Dame Sans Merci leads to a doomed love and loss of agency.

  • Chorus of Fairies

    Zephyr and Breama's mutual longing and the rivalry between Salamander and the others evoke themes of desire, attachment, and the pain of separation.

  • II

    The tender, peaceful embrace of Cupid and Psyche evokes the beauty and fragility of love.

  • V

    Love is the central figure invited into the sanctuary, suggesting both presence and longing.

  • Lamia

    Lycius's love for Lamia ends in tragic loss when she is exposed and vanishes, leaving him dead.

  • Lamia's Transformation and the Meeting with Lycius

    Lamia's love for Lycius is central, but the encounter with Apollonius foreshadows potential loss and tragedy.

  • II

    The brief bliss of Lycius and Lamia ends in tragic loss due to pride and exposure.

  • Sonnet: The Day Is Gone

    The poem vividly catalogues the beloved's physical attributes now lost, emphasizing the pain of separation at day's end.

  • To Fanny

    The speaker's desperate plea for complete, guileless love and the threat of loss if it is not granted.

  • Lines to Fanny

    The speaker's intense longing for his beloved Fanny and the pain of remembrance highlight the theme of love intertwined with loss.

  • The Cap and Bells

    Elfinan's thwarted love for mortal Bertha and Bellanaine's forced marriage highlight themes of unfulfilled desire and loss.

  • XIII

    Bellanaine's unfulfilled love and her yearning for another man after marriage.

  • XIX

    Elfinan's lament for his lost love for Bertha and his sorrow over the forced marriage.

  • Chapter XX

    Love's thwarted passion leads to destructive fury, blending amorous desire with vengeful cruelty.

  • XLIII

    The Emperor's infatuation with Bertha Pearl is revealed, highlighting the theme of romantic love and longing.

  • XLV

    The monarch's declaration of being in love and his desire to obtain the lady.

  • XLVIII

    The Emperor's love causes him physical and emotional pain

  • LI

    The monarch's reaction to the defiant couplet against Cupid reflects themes of love and emotional turmoil.

  • LIII

    The speaker defends the prince's love for Bertha, suggesting it is natural and not a crime.

  • LIV

    The Emperor's desire to embrace a sweet girl reflects themes of romantic pursuit and longing.

  • To George Keats

    The deep, inexpressible feelings of gratitude and love for his brother and friends highlight the theme of love in the face of potential loss.

  • The Last Sonnet

    The poem's central tension between the desire for eternal union and the inevitability of separation or death.