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Mary, Mary · Theme

Appearance and Dress

How Mary, Mary develops Appearance and Dress.

Dress is a major motif, representing identity, aspiration, and social status; the mother's detailed rules on clothing and their shared fantasies about elaborate gowns serve as a means of expressing their souls and escaping their poverty.

Where it surfaces

  • V

    The chapter is entirely devoted to Mary's physical description and her mother's manipulation of her appearance to maintain an illusion of youth.

  • VIII

    Mary's meticulous attention to her dress, hair, and necklace reflects her desire to present herself as grown-up and attractive.

  • Chapter X

    Mary's distress over her short skirt and false hem underscores her preoccupation with how she is perceived.

  • XII

    Mary carefully alters her skirt and styles her hair to look her best for the meeting.

  • XXII

    Mary's careful dressing and the detailed shopping for Nora's Communion outfit highlight the importance of appearance.

  • XXVII

    The chapter is dominated by detailed discussions of dress, fashion rules, and the symbolic importance of clothing for Mary and her mother.