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CLXXIII explained
Socrates responds to Xanthippe's complaint about his minimal preparations for guests, asserting that true friendship is not dependent on material provisions.
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Socrates responds to Xanthippe's complaint about his minimal preparations for guests, asserting that true friendship is not dependent on material provisions.
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- Moderation and Simplicity
Socrates' lack of elaborate preparation embodies the Stoic value of simplicity, rejecting superfluous social conventions.
- Social Duty and Relationship
Redefines the duty of a host and the nature of friendship, focusing on the intrinsic virtue of the relationship over external displays.
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“Xanthippe was blaming Socrates, because he was making small preparation for receiving his friends: but Socrates said, If they are our friends, they will not care about it; and if they are not, we shall care nothing about them.”
When Xanthippe criticized Socrates for his meager arrangements for guests, he replied that real friends would not mind the simplicity, and if they were not real friends, their opinion would not matter to him.
Encapsulates the core Stoic idea of judging relationships by their intrinsic worth (virtue/friendship) rather than by external, indifferent factors like the quality of hospitality.
