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Choosing the Useful Over the Agreeable explained
A brief, direct maxim advising that the selection of a physician or a friend should be based on their utility and benefit, not on their pleasantness or agreeableness.
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A brief, direct maxim advising that the selection of a physician or a friend should be based on their utility and benefit, not on their pleasantness or agreeableness.
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- Practical Ethics and Self-Discipline
The chapter provides a practical rule for living: prioritize what is genuinely beneficial (useful) over what is merely pleasing (agreeable) in critical relationships, emphasizing disciplined choice.
- Moderation and Simplicity
The advice cuts through social complexity and the temptation of superficial charm, advocating for a simple, clear standard of value—utility—in personal and professional alliances.
Key passages
“You ought to choose both physician and friend not the most agreeable, but the most useful.”
Select a doctor or a companion based on their practical benefit and effectiveness, not on how pleasant or likable they are.
A concise Stoic principle applying to personal and professional judgment, stressing substance over superficial appeal.
