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The Deception of the Sexes explained

The chapter argues that men and women fundamentally deceive themselves about each other, as each sex truly honors and loves only itself or its own ideal.

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The chapter argues that men and women fundamentally deceive themselves about each other, as each sex truly honors and loves only itself or its own ideal. It uses the example of a man desiring a peaceable woman, while woman's essential nature is argued to be unpeaceable, like a cat.

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  • Setup
  • Escalation
  • Breaking point
  • Aftermath
  • Closing

The passage reveals the Wanderer's ultimate psychological exhaustion with seeking truth, climaxing in his desp…

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Themes in this chapter

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  • “The sexes deceive themselves about each other: the reason is that in reality they honour and love only themselves (or their own ideal, to express it more agreeably).”

    Men and women are mutually deceived because each is ultimately self-interested, loving their own self-image or ideal above the other.

    Core thesis of the chapter on the psychology of sexual relations.

  • “Thus man wishes woman to be peaceable: but in fact woman is essentially unpeaceable, like the cat, however well she may have assumed the peaceable demeanour.”

    Man desires a peaceful woman, but woman's true nature is inherently unpeaceful and predatory, akin to a cat, regardless of her calm outward appearance.

    Illustrates the deception with a specific, essentialist claim about feminine nature.