# Love and Marriage in A Gentleman of Leisure

> Theme guide for A Gentleman of Leisure by P. G. Wodehouse.

Romantic relationships are central, with Jimmy's pursuit of Molly McEachern and Lord Dreever's desire to marry for love rather than money, highlighting conflicts between personal affection and societal or familial expectations.

## Where it surfaces

- [II: The New Pyramus and Thisbe](https://www.betterreads.dev/discover/a_gentleman_of_leisure_se/chapters/ii-the-new-pyramus-and-thisbe): Jimmy's infatuation with a girl he never spoke to explores the theme of love at first sight and romantic idealism.
- [IX: A New Friend and an Old One](https://www.betterreads.dev/discover/a_gentleman_of_leisure_se/chapters/ix-a-new-friend-and-an-old-one): Both Jimmy and Lord Dreever are troubled by romantic entanglements: Jimmy searches for a lost love, while Lord Dreever faces pressure from his uncle to marry against his wishes.
- [Making a Start](https://www.betterreads.dev/discover/a_gentleman_of_leisure_se/chapters/xii-making-a-start): Jimmy's deep feelings for Molly are evident as he struggles with the gap between his romantic dreams and their actual acquaintance. His jealousy over her sympathy for Lord Dreever underscores his romantic interest.
- [Spike's Views](https://www.betterreads.dev/discover/a_gentleman_of_leisure_se/chapters/xiii-spike-s-views): Jimmy reflects deeply on his love for Molly, feeling that she is woven into his life and that this is the decisive romantic moment.
- [Mr. McEachern Intervenes](https://www.betterreads.dev/discover/a_gentleman_of_leisure_se/chapters/xv-mr-mceachern-intervenes): The chapter highlights the tension between genuine affection and the calculated matchmaking efforts of Sir Thomas and Mr. McEachern, who push Molly toward Lord Dreever for his title.
- [XVI: A Marriage Has Been Arranged](https://www.betterreads.dev/discover/a_gentleman_of_leisure_se/chapters/xvi-a-marriage-has-been-arranged): Molly is pressured into an arranged marriage with Lord Dreever for social advancement, despite her lack of love for him.
- [Jimmy Remembers Something, and Hears Something Else](https://www.betterreads.dev/discover/a_gentleman_of_leisure_se/chapters/xvii-jimmy-remembers-something-and-hears-something-else): The chapter explores the contrast between genuine affection and marriage as a transactional arrangement, as Lord Dreever is forced into an engagement for money.
- [XVIII: The Lochinvar Method](https://www.betterreads.dev/discover/a_gentleman_of_leisure_se/chapters/xviii-the-lochinvar-method): Jimmy's pursuit of Molly intensifies as her engagement to Lord Dreever looms; the canoe scene signals a turning point in their relationship.
- [XIX: On the Lake](https://www.betterreads.dev/discover/a_gentleman_of_leisure_se/chapters/xix-on-the-lake): The chapter centers on Jimmy's declaration of love and his determination to win Molly away from her engagement to Lord Dreever, exploring the tension between romantic love and societal/familial obligations.
- [Loathsome Gifts](https://www.betterreads.dev/discover/a_gentleman_of_leisure_se/chapters/xxi-loathsome-gifts): Jimmy's joyful engagement and his humorous sermon on the virtues of marriage contrast with Spike's cynical view, underscoring the central romantic plot.
- [XXV: Explanations and an Interruption](https://www.betterreads.dev/discover/a_gentleman_of_leisure_se/chapters/xxv-explanations-and-an-interruption): Molly's unwavering belief in Jimmy despite the damning evidence underscores the strength of their romantic bond.
- [XXVIII: Spennie's Hour of Clear Vision](https://www.betterreads.dev/discover/a_gentleman_of_leisure_se/chapters/xxviii-spennie-s-hour-of-clear-vision): Spennie reflects on the unsuitability of his engagement to Molly and the idea of affinities in marriage.

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