A Day at a Time · Chapter
The Extravagance of Love explained
This chapter defends acts of extravagant love and beauty against the criticism of practical utility, using Mary's anointing of Jesus as a key example.
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This chapter defends acts of extravagant love and beauty against the criticism of practical utility, using Mary's anointing of Jesus as a key example. It argues that beauty, generosity, and devotion have intrinsic value and are justified by love itself, not by utilitarian standards.
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Narrative arc
Story tension across the book — this chapter sits in Falling action.
- Setup
- Escalation
- Breaking point
- Aftermath
- Closing
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Follow the arc while readingThemes in this chapter
- Love and Generosity
Explores how love expresses itself in extravagant, non-utilitarian acts, such as Mary's anointing and everyday sacrifices.
- Sacrifice and Duty
Contrasts bare duty with the overflow of love, arguing that true love goes beyond duty and is justified by its beauty.
Characters to notice
- Jesus Christ
Defends Mary's extravagant offering of ointment, vindicating the value of beauty and love over mere utility.
- Mary
Anoints Jesus with costly ointment, an act of love and devotion that Jesus praises as a memorial.
- Judas
Criticizes Mary's act as wasteful, but his protest is recorded as a negative example of valuing utility over love.
Key passages
“Why was not this ointment sold for three hundred pence, and given to the poor?”
Why wasn't this perfume sold for a large sum and the money given to the poor?
Judas's criticism of Mary's act, questioning the practical value of her offering.
“Wherever this Gospel is preached, this that she had done shall be told as a memorial of her.”
Wherever the good news is proclaimed, her action will be remembered and honored.
Jesus's promise that Mary's act of love would be celebrated forever.
